saw on a fren's blog... the person that you want to share your happiness with and the person that you want to share your sadness with are the ones you love... they may be the same...or different depending on ppl i guess... and i do agree with the fact that i think the one you want to share your sadness with should be of a higher "value" than the one you want to share your happiness with...reason being: there are more downs than ups in life...
so of course... the one you share your sadness with is the one you love more i guess... however... i do hold another view on this fact... the one you want to share your sickness with may simply be more useful as he/she can simply solve your problem than the one you love... there's no love in this aspects...oni in terms of utility... and yes...i thrashed all romance out of this situation... but tt seems kinda juz like a reality....
we seek ppl who can help us...who can tell us wat we want to hear...and ppl who support us no matter how wrong we are... itz in human nature to wish to hear the things they wanna hear rather than the disapprovals of others... and yes... i'm one of them...
"the days get on by...but its just the nites that hurts the mosts....."