communication i believe...is one of the more important things in a relationship... be it frens, lovers, families... it's just incomplete without communication... if ppl are unwilling to communicate and tell how they feel...how they do things etc...it's gonna lead to misunderstanding inevitably... i like talking....i like sharing my life...to a certain extent... but talking alwaes enable mi to understand ppl betta...provide a glimpse into their perspective...and in a way...allow me to know them betta... therefore...shall we talk?
oh...and on my daily commutes to work..i've realized something... guys and gals do have diff standing posture on the mrt... for guys...when they are leaning against something...they tends to lean oni with the top part of the back and keeping their lower body away from the walls.. thereby thrusting their lower body forward slightly....for gals... they lean with the whole back on the wall.... with their butt touching the wall too.... i wonder if there's ani reasons for tt...if u're bored and have no seats on the train...u all can try observing the standing posture of ppl too....
on a side note..i watch 881 le... itz a interesting show...and with lotsa hokkien songs... but it seems to mi tt the hokkien songs melody are all similar with juz a change of words... and the lyrics often involved moms, jails, repentance, and melancholia... mabbe hokkiens are more pessimistic i guess..but compare to hairspray... i like hairspray more... for it simply is juz a happier show...
习惯被拒绝的人会先拒绝
这一次至少是我先说离别
有一些痛楚看不见泪水
有一种防卫叫做我无所谓
要让你快乐原是我的心愿
可是你从不在意我的伤悲
丢给我一些喜悦的碎屑
却带走我一切
"things go wrong for a reason...look at urself first before u start pointing fingers..."
