i guess in life, itz quite hard to get wat we alwaes wanted... somehow at different point of times, different things will happen to you that affect your thinking... wat u want may change, wat u need may change, and even wat u think may changes according to the situation that life has presented itself to u... i guess that's the reasons for discontentment, unsatisfaction and all sorts of feelings that associated with wanting more and more out of yourselves, your frenz, or out of life.... ppl will complain that life is not being fair, life is a bitch, life sucks, life is (enter watever negative connotation here)... but however, sometimes ppl juz dun realise...itz not life that has changes...itz yourself...
the same situation can happen everydae..but how u deal with it, how u react to it each time may be totalli different... for example, initially doing a piece of work may interest u, allow u to gain satisfaction...but given time, u'll start to feel that the same piece of work is not giving enuf of a challenge, or simply is juz mundane and boring... so whose fault is it? Life?? or yourself?? people will blame life...most ppl are quick to blame...itz juz human nature... but alwaes remember...when u are pointing a finger at someone else, there's 3 other fingers pointing back at yourself... bitching about how things don't turn out well won't make the situation improve (at least i feel shiok after complaining)... but after the bitching...there muz be the adjusting phase.. adjusting ur mindset towards the situation and make the best out of it... after all, humans can evolve because we know how to adapt well and fast... if not...we might juz become extinct like dinosaurs liao....
moral of the story: bitch less and accept ur fate... you can only suck thumb...
"the best thing that happen was meeting you... being with you is juz the next best thing.."
