hmmm...been hearing about the same problems from a few of my frenz lately...all of them having frenship woes... be it due to distance, or lack of communcation...but recently...i can sense the unhappiness that shrouded them...
ppl can ask, wat's the most diff thing that ppl can maintain.. some would answer a relationship, but to me, i guess the most diff thing to maintain is frenship... in relationship, u oni maintain this with r/s with one person at any one time...if a person have many relationship at the same time...ok...itz their life... but frenship works the otherway round... you muz maintain...ok..not realli a must but rather up to the individual... it's many frenships maintaining at the same time...this would be more time consuming than a relationship... juz imagine...the more we progress in our life...the more frenz we should have...
after going thru pri sch, sec sch, jc, army, uni....up til now, how many frenz should we have? normalli, the ppl who are the frenliest would be those at the same stage of life at u...for example, sec sch days would be ur sec sch frens..army would be ur army frenz... but who realli takes a effort to maintain the previous frenships?? bit by bit...all these frenz slowly faded away...slowly they become aquaintaince.... and slowly..they become strangers... come to think of it...isn't a veri sad thing that the once "good" or "best" frenz slowly becomes strangers...? doesn't frenship transcend time and space ? i do wonder...
mabbe itz cause ppl dun take effort to maintain frenship ba...itz veri diff to spread out times between all the frenz that u have...esp into the other circles of frenz that differs from u now...you need to spend time with ur current frenz...and you need to find time to spend with ur "old" friends... sometimes this thing is kinda diff to do eh..one might arge...where will have enough time to spend...if i spend all these time on frenz, wat abt my bf/gf?? mabbe tt's one danger of getting attached....at the end of it all, you're oni left with ur bf/gf.... but juz think...a day in a year might just be sufficient to keep that old frenship of yours burning throughout the life...juz a couple of hours in a year... that's not too much to commit to a fren rite?? i'm sure a fren surely deserved more time out in a year from you.. after all, you all are fren after all...
after all among the billions and billions of ppl in this world, you both have met n gotten to know each other n become frenz...so i guess itz a fate that brings the both of u tog.... so i guess, the bottom line is ...treasure your fren...
"to meet is due to fate, to last is up to you"
